The "One Another" Gender by Ruth Bartlett

There is another 'gender' which seems to have gotten lost in the debate about roles in the church. I refer to the oft quoted (by Paul and other NT writers) of the: 'one another' gender. Who are these if not inclusive of gender?  
  • John admonishes believers to love one another ( 13:34);
  • Peter encourages us to be hospitable to one another (1 Peter 4:9)
  • Paul, and the writer to the Hebrews, teach us to:
    • forgive one another (Eph. 4:32)
    • accept one another (Romans 15:7)
    • bear with one another ( Eph. 4:2) 
    • be devoted to one another (Rom 12:10) 
    • honour one another above ourselves ( Rom. 12:10)
    • be kind and compassionate to one another ( Eph. 4:32) 
    • share with one another ( Hebrews 13;16)
    • serve one another (Gal. 5:13) 
    • carry one another's burdens ( Gal. 6:2)
    • build one another up (1 Thess. 5:11) 
    • encourage one another daily (Heb. 3:13) 
    • comfort one another ( 1 Thess. 4:18) 
    • stimulate one another (Hebrews 10:24) 
    • instruct one another ( Romans 15:14) 
    • admonish one another (Col. 3:16) 
    • pray for one another ( James 5:16) 
    • confess to one another ( James 5:16) 
    • be of same mind as one another ( Rom. 12;16) 
    • submit to one another ( Eph. 5:21)

It really all  boils down to loving one another as God has loved us. Male and female  believers who are 'all one in Christ Jesus' - we are the 'one anothers'. I guess if we all were able to follow these precepts there would be both acceptance and recognition of one another's gifts.